The best relationships are those that help a person grow emotionally. When a relationship ends, concentrate on the positive aspect of that in the relationship that was not favorable since it will help with making decisions of not repeating that which is not good for your person. Love can help you become a better appreciated communicator. Here are a few dating tips when searching for a new love.
To find Love and Respect take in consideration the following:
DECIDE to inspire being loved. If you haven't had good preparation for grooming strong intimate relationships, project to the person of your interest that they need to accept who you are without thinking they can change you. Change in your person will come with compromise not demand. Say to yourself daily, "I deserve to be loved and respected because I am a loving and respecting being." Remember you are what you think and you will attract what you feel about yourself from the opposite sex.
DETERMINE at least five things you should be loved for and write them down. If you have a fun sense of humor, write it down. If it's your manners, communication skills or attentive listening, write them down. Just make sure what you document are personality traits. You don't want to write down attributes; beautiful eyes, soft and supple skin, silky hair and being muscular for example. These are characteristics of lust and conceit, not love or capabilities.
ACCEPT BEING LOVED. Start by reviewing your list and listening to yourself saying them out loud. Use a mirror and smile when you repeat what you have written about yourself so it can become a part of your conscious state and project to those you meet. You deserve to be loved for those qualities you respect about yourself, so respect yourself first to be treated respectfully.
RELEASE FEAR. Continue to be fearless about your projection of self and you will find that you begin to attract people of like disposition. You are your own universe. When looking for a mate, what you create as desires will come to you with practicing the tips in this article religiously.
2012 Sharon L. West
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